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Wednesday, January 4, 2017

conflict, avoidance, understanding

"Avoidance is the best short-term strategy to escape conflict,
and the best long-term strategy to ensure suffering."


"If you avoid conflict to keep the peace,
you start a war inside yourself."


"The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship
is not victory or defeat.
It's reaching understanding
and letting go of our need to be right."

These are three quotes i found in the net.
I like all three of them as points of reference.
The last one describes the process which one can call
fundamental for the transformational process of "love",
a passion and and openness to understand each other.


sorry, these quotes here without authors

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